Becky Pius wrote
Many married women are guilty and has failed in some role’s.
You bring your family members to your husband’s house, you welcome them, you influence your husband in taking the responsibilities of your own father by paying your siblings school fees, he clothes them, he finances the marriage ceremony of your siblings and other ceremonial activities in your father’s house and you also make your home accessible by your own people but yet none of your husband’s people comes around.
Your husband people’s are tagged witches, wizards and irresponsible people.
They’ve all neglected the man just for you.
They stopped coming around for peace and to avoid insults from you, the almighty woman, a woman of no nonsense…lol…huh!
They’re scared to get a cup of water from you even when they find the courage to come.
You successfully pushed everyone out because of your stinginess and bad mouthing if there’s any word like that.
You go round announcing to the whole community of the little help the gentle man is trying to render to few people in his family but yet he sponsored all your siblings, your cousins and your in-laws.
Even when you have functions none of the man siblings appears in the photograph.
You celebrate outsiders than those in his life.
You shut all doors against his people
You talked them down.
You turned his heart against his people and made him focus all his attention on you and your people.
Tomorrow, when he is sick you start looking for his people.
When he’s sick you start complaining on who visit and who doesn’t visit.
When he is broke and need money for an operation in India, you remember he has family who could make some contributions for him.
Remember you will be weak as a woman and will need people around you in your old age.
When last did you as a wife visit his mom?
When last did you encourage him to send some money to his sick mom in the village?
When was the last time you helped him transfer some money to his siblings?
When was the last time you have him renovate his father’s compound?
When last did you take food stocks to his family?
When last did you even try to settle differences between him and his people?
If you meet them scattered? Have you try to bring them back?
What kind of a wife are you?
What kind of greediness is this among us women?
Where is the money coming from sef?
You should even be happy that the innocent woman gave you a rich son as a husband.
He’s doing everything to maintain you and your family members but when it comes to his, you remember there’s no money in the house, Really?….hmmm
It’s high time, we women stop this rubbish and be human for once.
You see that your millionaire husband? He won’t be rich forever.
Money isn’t everything in life.
Money can’t even buy you life and remember when you die, you will never take your wealth to your grave.
Unapologetically, many so called pastor’s wives are found of doing this and will be carrying their nonsense faces and pretentious attitude acting like saints.
If you are a good wife, your husband’s mom should come around and should have his siblings visit also, if you really care and love their son.
Stop milking him for your people
Stop using his head
Stop using him to raise your family members
And you the husband man, when you are investing on your wife and her people remember your leanage.
You came from somewhere
People were there for you
Your mom prayers brought you there
Your siblings good wishes is never left out.
Remember the breast you sucked
Remember who watch your infant head
Remember who was naked just for you to cloth
Remember who starved for you
Remember who stay awoke for you
Remember the sacrifices your mom and siblings did for you.
Remember that happy home you once had
Remember the story Time
Remember the help you got from your people
Remember the love
Remember your family backings
Remember their prayers and wishes for you
If as a man, you fall into the category of men who married such women. Be wise and be reasoning. Remember,
That her love for her people is far greater than her love for you.
So be guided and remember this people take you to be their factory and nothing more.
Today is Sunday, so Pls women should try visiting their mom in-law.
Take provisions and food stock to them just as you will do to your own mothers.
So women including my humble self, we really need to change and repent from this very act.
Don’t be a careless and a carefree daughter in-law.
Do not be just a daughter in-law be a daughter in love.
Some women act in a devilish manner.
Circulate the love.
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