Having sex, giving birth, living with a man did make you his wife, if he did rectified you in court you are still single, lady advice her fellow ladies

A lady named Shuaibu Lubabat has taken to social media to advice her fellow ladies on how to place value and pride on their selves.

Lubabat Stress that for a man to introduced a lady to his families or lady introduced a man to her families, having sex, giving birth for a man or living with man is not marriage.

She said as long as the man did not pay her bride price on rectified her in court, they lady is still single like her.

She advice girls to value themselves, because what is valueless are found easily.

But valuable once are hard to get.

She further stress that when a lady sleep with a man, that has now open door for the man to demand more.

Lubabat share the post on Ebira Social relationship.

According to her post, “Who told u introduction is marriage!Who told u ur boyfriend is ur hubby!Who told u living together is marriage!! Abi u don’t know d meaning of marriage again…. If u have not been acknowledged or rectified in court.Aunty u are still single like me. Do u think buying fake ring in d market to wear makes u his wife…. Do u think having a child for him,makes u his wife… Do u think knowing his mother and siblings qualified u to b his wife… Do u think helping his mother to do house chores,cooking and others, guarantee u his wife, have u been asked? Are u sure he is ready?Respect urself as a lady,knowing well dat we are d world’s pride!! Stop leaving ur slippers today,ur toothbrush tomorrow and finally living with him.stop showing them ur desperation and raise ur value.. Stop fooling urself with dat word love… If sex is love… What of those who paid money to sleep with prostitutes ….is dat love!!!If u turn urself into cow dat gives milk freely… Do u think he will come to pay for d milk and also appreciate it with respect! Sleeping with him once will give him d opportunity to call for more… Know ur damn worth! Note:cheap things are found everywhere but costly and valuable things are found beyond measure.Stop being a fool!!Be wise!…You can take d word and hate me, But dat won’t stop me from writing about u”.