10 things to avoid in a relationship – Oluremi Olusesan

Relationship does not die or end on its own, the partner involve are the ones that end it and kill it.
For you to be able to properly take care of your relationship, you need to avoid these things in your relationship.
Some of them are listed below.

1. Pride:
   This is a feeling that you are better than everyone else even the person you’re in a relationship with or that you are doing someone favor by being in a relationship with him or her.
2. Neglect:
   What you neglect will die. If you neglect your relationship, it will die naturally.
   RELATIONSHIP that is neglected can not grow.
3. Over familiarity:
   Being too familiar is not healthy for relationship. When familiarity steps in RESPECT and HONOUR will step out.
4. Insensitive:
   This is when you are too busy or careless to notice some details about your partner.
   How come you didn’t notice that she has been ill for three days?
5. Resentment:
   This is a feeling of anger or displeasure you have against your partner probably because you were wronged or betrayed by him or her.
6. Telling Lies:
   You lie about everything even you are caught in the act. You say white is red and red is black even when the truth is obvious.
   Lying will make it hard for your partner to trust you.
7. Cheating:
   You’re in a relationship but still sleeping around with other people without your partner’s knowledge. Is that a good lifestyle?
   Why dating 5 people concurrently at a time?
8. Abuse:
   Physical abuse(beating, slap, hitting, flogging, hitting etc), emotional abuse (manipulation, cursing, neglect etc), sexual abuse (rape, harassment etc. ) etc., has the capability to end any relationship. Avoid every form of abuse.
9. Nagging And Complaining:
   Some people can nag and complain for Africa. Even when their partners tell them sorry, they will ask you why are you telling them sorry.
10. Hypocrisy:
    This is claiming to be what you are not, assuming to have something meanwhile all are lies.