Hassanat Bashir
How do I talk about marriage without talking about sex? Am not a shy person when it comes to talking about marriage stuffs. I just started talking about the sex issue this morning and some people are already coming into my inbox to tell me sex is not food, sex is not marriage, there is more to marriage than sex, sex is not this, sex is not that. Hmmmmmm! Yes to you sex is not food, but to others, it’s their food and they love to have it the same way they have their 3 square meals if possible, do u have any business with that? These people saying sex is not food are the wives of those men you see them having side chicks out there, why do they have side chicks? Is it for children or any other thing? No, it’s for sexual satisfaction they are not getting from their wives! Holy holy wives pushing their husbands outside, and they will be telling you any man that want to cheat will cheat irrespective of how you give him sex, okay we have heard, but give him first na so that you have something to hold against him. See, the competition and hustle between wives and side chicks now is tough! Hence it becomes a survival of the fittest. These are the same category of women I said if you like cancel them from now till next year, they will never change. You said sex doesn’t keep a man, please what is keeping him with that chick? Does he wants a baby from her? No. It is the sex, love, good look, humility, respect, romance and sexy appearances, sweet smell, good company, gist, and more that you are not giving him that he is getting from there, that’s the bitter truth, if you know how your husband’s side chick treat him, worship him, and the rest eh you will know that you have not started anything yet. But instead of you to pick correction, swallow your pride and open your mind to learn, you are still talking what doesn’t exist. I have seen a man have a side chick and they have been together for over 4 years and are still together, he sleeps there, spend weekend there, and many things and he ended up marrying her, why because she gives him what he wants. Until you are ready to step up, side chicks will keep collecting your men from you because after you are done nagging and insulting him, he goes there and get consoled, she rubs his head, give him sweet words, encourage him, give him some soothing words and top it with a mind blowing romance and sex, then he doze off. Continue wearing ur hair net for months without washing, tying APC wrapper and PDP polo, full hairs in your private parts with unkept hair and body odour, the battle line has been drawn already. If I want to eat coconut bread and I have coconut bread in my house, do I still need to go out and look for coconut bread? No because I already have it, that’s the issue of married men and side chicks. It’s now left for you to make your decision. You don’t even need to come to my inbox and vent your anger anger, abi am I ur husband’s side chick 🤷🤷🤷
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