Why can’t I meet a man that will pay off my credit card bills maybe car note and whatever else God puts upon his soul – Ashebu

“I am so unlucky with men. I don’t date married men so perhaps that’s why I have never met a man that has ever spoilt me before. I have been told that I will be spoilt once I become pregnant or marry them or stupid options like that, who has time for that shit?

I don’t subscribe to the mentality of following men for money but in one lifetime, every woman should experience it at least once. I don’t even know how it works. Would he just leave money on the bedside table after sex or would be put it in my account? Would he buy me things or would I need to ask? Would he give me his credit card? How does it even work?

I have dated regular men, people that work hard for their money don’t really go around spoiling women except you are a politician, musician, athlete or stupid rich like Dangote. I want to experience it, it’s on my bucket list. I am sick and tired of being chased by men that have little or nothing to offer except love.

Why can’t I meet a man that will pay off my credit card bills maybe car note and whatever else God puts upon his soul. He can be the head and tell me to take a year off work while I grow my online business. I can fantasize but I know that everything in life comes at a cost. I have seen friends marry such men and they are controlling and dominating.

I can’t be controlled or dominated. I can’t pretend to like anyone for anything. I can’t sleep with men that I can’t stand. I can’t pretend to be submissive or soft spoken. I can’t bow down to any man because he is somebody important. I don’t treat people differently based on their wealth. I don’t care about any of that shit so I guess I answered my own question.

Wealthy men need their ego’s to be stroked and they need to be in charge. They want to hand out money in exchange of your freedom of expression and strength. I can’t bow down to anyone for money and will curse you out if you ever step out of line. If you are rich and you don’t mind dealing with a strong boss woman then come and spoil your Queen” Temi Ashebu wrote.